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Apr 02, 2015

9 traits of Church Bullies from Thom Rainer

Deal with the bullies in the church and recognize their traits


See also my blog on church bullies

Abuse in the church: When the Pastor is the Bully

How to spot a bully in the church

All of T.J. Addington's books including his latest, Deep Influence,  are available from the author for the lowest prices and a $2.00 per book discount on orders of ten or more.



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bullies church
Apr 02, 2015

9 traits of Church Bullies from Thom Rainer

Deal with the bullies in the church and recognize their traits


See also my blog on church bullies

Abuse in the church: When the Pastor is the Bully

How to spot a bully in the church

All of T.J. Addington's books including his latest, Deep Influence,  are available from the author for the lowest prices and a $2.00 per book discount on orders of ten or more.



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